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by quailrunner » Thu Sep 09, 2010 5:33 am
RGD, No my dad isn't still with us, as you probably know most lifers of your generation don't live 10 yrs. after retirement. He retired 10/31/78 and past on 10/8/88 at the ripe old age of 52. Alcoholism wasn't what got him though, unlike the majority of the others. I believe it was the result of having to get the series of rabies (prevention) shots. We were out checking our coyote, bobcat and fox traps, and while I was checking my trap at this particular spot, I heard yelling and screaming coming from his general area. I ran over and found that he had his knee on a coyotes chest, one hand in his mouth, and the other hand trying to pry open the mouth. Well, I cracked the coyote on the head and we got my dad loose.
We sent the head in to be tested for rabies, and the Hospital lost the head, so that meant the series of rabies shots had to be started. A little over a year later, he was diagnosed with a brain tumor. He came to my wedding 6 days after the biopsy with his head still in bandages. That was in July of '87 and he lived for another 15 months after that.
My wife's father was a veteran of WW2, A purple heart recipient and a survivor of the Baton Death March. He was shot twice, and had all his teeth knocked out except for one by the butt of a jap rifle.
My wife is one of seven kids, 6 of them being girls. I am 1 of 5, the middle son, of 3 boys and 2 girls.
You say that my generation is responsible for the drugs, gangs, divorce rate, and such. I think you should realize that it is your generation that started the mess. I look around at my brothers and sisters, friends, and in-laws, and I see a lot of men that have absolutely no parenting skills, a lot of ladies too, but they do know how to drink, and say "what's in it for me". One thing being an Army brat taught me was the ability to adapt. We moved around so much that I had too. So, When I saw what other people's marriages were like and how "my generation" were raising their kids, I adapted, I threw away the ingrained methods of parenting, stopped having the frig. loaded with Beer, picked a career that allowed me to work from home, and elevated my wife's status from second class citizen too full fledged partner.
24 years later and we are still happily married, we have 4 great kids that are always top of their class, are asked by the church and their schools to mentor other kids, and most important of all have absolutely no alcohol or drug problems.
So, for this all to relate to the topic of this thread I'll say this. A close working dog allows the hunter to train his dog better. The hunter is there to correct the behavior of the dog before it gets out of hand. A close working dog allows the hunter to observe and enjoy the dogs work. The close working dog loves to work and live near the hunter. A big running dog usually goes through extreme disciplinary training, they work so far away that the hunter usually has no idea what they are doing. Usually the hunter is daydreaming, and hoping that he will get to see the big runner more often, all the while wondering why it turned out this way.